Hii! Weâre Red! We are a plural system! We support all system origins. We are bodily 19! We are a flip (little and cg) with a little lean. Most all of us are lgbt+ in one way or other.
We prefer the word headmate instead of alter.
We have introjects pls donât treat them as their source they are just normal people.
DNI: anti-endos, anti age regression, anti pet regression, people that think regression is sexual, transphobes, homophobes, anti LGBT+, sysmeds, transmeds, nsfw, other basic criteria, drama accounts, blank accounts
We have the right to and will block anyone that makes us uncomfortable or we just donât likeđ
Accidentally outed myself to my roommate so wish me luck!
For context we had someone I previously considered a friend drop slurs. I called her out on it now sheâs playing victim.
My roommate went âyouâre not trans thoughâ (in response to how I reacted/how quick I was to end the friendship) to which I didnât respond to fast enough/properly sooo ended up just telling her.
Weâve been watching source recently and itâs been like âdamn these people need to chill. Theyâre being so annoying- oh wait thatâs me. Yeah sounds about right I do need to chillâ
what the fuck. theres not even a fucking joke here. its just the fucking alphabet. i was expecting some kind of fucking meme like âgunâ or âjohn cenaâ or something like that but no its just the fucking alphabet. here. on tumblr.com. 26 users just fucking banded together to write the alphabet. what the fuck, man.
Like I want something but âitâs not a necessityâ so I donât get it. I need something but âdo I reallyâ and wait till itâs an emergency.
My whole life the thought of spending any money terrified me. I always felt so guilty that people spent money on me. No matter what it was from something special like a gift to food. Just so guilty that someone did that.
Every activity, every meal, every gift. Just gave me the guilt and pain that someone spent money on me they worked for.
Probably didnât help that I have been the adult my whole life. Hearing âoh itâs so expensiveâ âwe donât have the moneyâ definitely didnât help. Just made me more worried.
Seeing the fridge/cabinets empty and hearing them stressed about money made me feel more guilt for needing stuff.
Even now that Iâm an adult with adult money I just canât convince myself to treat myself sometimes. Any purchase Iâve made has been necessity (gas) or just something that I regretted spending money on after.
I didnât regret the item/food I bought but the fact I had to spend money for it. The feeling that if I donât use it obsessively forever I wasted my money and therefore my time.