A mix of Everything - now mostly centered around One Piece

[spitcastle]

Good Kakashi-Sensei, you look kind of cool!

[furiousgoldfish]

things abuse survivors think/say

maybe my trauma wasn’t bad enough

maybe what happened was just my fault??

but what if I can’t hold that person accountable? what if they meant well

what if I don’t have the right to be angry?

but what if they didn’t know they were hurting me? maybe its my fault for not saying it

it’s my fault, i’ve always been hiding how badly things hurt me

i’m just weak and pathetic and everything hurts me it’s not their fault i’m like this

hey this this thing actually happen or did i make that up

if i ask abuser they’ll tell me i made it up that must be true they do say i’m delusional

maybe if I’ve done something differently this wouldn’t have happened

guilt guilt guilt guilt

what if abuser is right tho? what if they’re telling the truth and it’s okay to tell it in insults then?

i’m garbage, i knew it

yeah everyone deserves compassion and comfort but me? no.

I am the sole person who is just bad enough to deserve everything that has happened to me

no this person didn’t mean to hurt my feelings i’m just too sensitive!!!

maybe someone else wouldn’t be hurt by this, this means its my fault

i hate myself

how long until everyone realizes i’m just a fake and there’s nothing valuable inside of me

yeah they like me now but i’m going to fuck it up and they’ll hate me like everyone else

was that abuse? no it can’t be. its my fault. if I wasn’t the way I am it wouldn’t have happened

everything people do to me is just what I deserved

what this person is doing bothers me so I have to try harder not to be bothered by it

this person is wrong but everyone believes them so it must be okay

yeah they hate me but i don’t want them to leave me maybe i can get them to hate me less

yeah this person is hurting me but i still need them in my life maybe if i change myself

it doesn’t matter if they hurt me, i’m used to it

what if everyone abandons me and I die alone

this person scares me but I can’t let that affect me

I shouldn’t be feeling this way, I need to get over my feelings

I can’t let anyone notice how I feel or they will hate me

how does everyone just stay calm? why can’t I do that

I’m a burden on everyone, I bet they’d all be happier if I wasn’t there

if I disappeared right now wouldn’t everything be better?

*these are not truths, this is after-effect of long term abuse

[er-cryptid]

Limits of the Human Body

Body Heat = 107.6 F

Cold Water = 40 F

Hot Air = 300 F

High Altitude = 15,000 ft

Starvation = 45 days

Diving Depth = 282 ft

Lack of Oxygen = 11 minutes

Blood Loss = 40%

Dehydration = 7 days

[meanpear-deactivated20241004]

Writers finding this post:

[a-casual-egg]

Thank you

[hessys-corner]

Europeans about half of this post:

[nanaccused]

Body Heat = 42 C

Cold Water = 4 C

Hot Air = 148 C

High Altitude = 4572m

Starvation = 45 days

Diving Depth = 390m

Lack Of Oxygen = 11 minutes

Blood Loss = 40%

Dehydration = 7 days

[edwin-payne-enthusiast]

Europeans seeing this version of this post:

[melongumi]

Guide: Tagging for Alternate Setting Fics

Tagging your fic with the ambiguous “Alternate Universe” metatag is Completely unhelpful.

DO NOT:  tag with “Alternate Universe” and “Coffee Shop”

DO: tag with the full, disambiguated forms of both “Alternate Universe - Modern Setting” and “Alternate Universe - Coffee Shop” (or whichever synonyms you prefer)

DO NOT: tag a canon divergence with “Alternate Universe”

DO: tag a canon divergence with “Canon Divergence” or “Alternate Universe - Canon Divergence” followed by any other applicable tags such as “Fix-it” or “Somebody Lives/Not Everyone Dies” (or, again, whichever synonyms you prefer)

I cannot stress this enough – the coffee shop tag is under the “Alternate Universe - Career” tag tree, which is separate from the “Alternate Universe - School” tag tree – and both those trees are separate from “Alternate Universe - Modern Setting”. You want your fic visible or filterable on each applicable search.

WHEN TAGGING for a non-canon setting, familarize yourself with the page for the Alternate Universe tag tree found [here].

Then, follow this flowchart: 

1. Is it a non-canon setting because the powers are different? If so, tag for the power differences as appropriate. 

If adding supernatural elements, “Alternate Universe - Supernatural Elements” or one of its synonyms or subtags is appropriate.  See also the “Alternate Universe - Fantasy” subtags such as “Alternate Universe - Witchcraft” or “Alternate Universe - Fae”. 

If removing supernatural elements, “Alternate Universe - Real World” or one of its synonyms or subtags. See especially “Alternate Universe - No Powers”.

2. Is your story set in a different time period than canon? If so, tag the time period at this time. Here are some of the options, with their many, many subtags.

Modern Setting

Note that the Modern: No Powers and Modern: Still Have Powers tags are sorted under both the modern setting subtree and the No Powers and Still Have Powers subtrees respectively. You may find this useful.

Historical

If you tag with both the metatag “Alternate Universe - Historical” and the more specific subtag that applies to your work, this is fine. However, so long as you’ve tagged with one of its subtags, anyone searching the metatag should be able to find it.

Fairy Tale

Most of these subtags are best suited for indicating Fairy Tale fusions, mind. See also the point above.

Fantasy (again)

Might be more appropriate for general fantasy settings if you’re not planning on a fusion with a specific fairy tale.

3. Is your story written in a setting based on a fannish tradition? Now is the time to pick a tag for that. Search for it on the Alternate Universe tag tree page. Find below some examples.

Alternate Universe - Spies & Secret Agents

Alternate Universe - Science Fiction (and subtags such as cyberpunk and space opera)

Alternate Universe - Criminals

Alternate Universe - Noir

Alternate Universe - Horror (zombies are a subtag here)

Alternate Universe - Dystopia

seriously, just do a search on the page, a tag for it exists

4. Now, if it’s in a school setting, tag the appropriate school setting.

Alternate Universe - School contains most of them, 

but  Alternate Universe - Art School is separately sorted with Artists,

and for whatever reason, College/University isn’t in the Alternate Universe tag tree at all. You’ll have to tag it separately. For this reason, if you’re tagging for College/University, you may want to double-tag it with Alternate Universe - School.

5. If it’s a career setting (aka the fic centers on the career), tag that at this time. There may be some crossover with this step and step 3.

Most career tags are subtags of  Alternate Universe - Career, but not all of them. 

If you don’t find the one you’re looking for, do a search on the main Alternate Universe tag tree page. It’s probably in there somewhere. In this case, tag “Alternate Universe - Career” in addition to the unaffiliated specific tag.

6. If it’s a fusion with a specific fandom, those are there too. 

Again, most are subtags of  Alternate Universe - Fusion. If you don’t find them on that subtree, still try searching the fandom. HOWEVER, 

You may prefer to tag it with something from the Crossovers & Fandom Fusions tag tree.

7. Sit back. Ask yourself if the tags both clearly communicate what’s in the fic so that people who read the tags can tell whether there are elements they’re especially interested in or would rather avoid,  and are filterable, so that, for example someone looking for a Gangster AU finds your Gangster AU. That won’t happen if you only tagged it with “Modern” and didn’t add “Alternate Universe - Gangsters” or “Alternate Universe - Mob” or “Alternate Universe - Criminals”. 

Feel free to reblog or comment with points I may have missed. 

Please do get familiar with exploring tag tree pages and using the Tag Search tool to find tags for fics you’re writing or want to read! They’re good systems, but only as good as their implementation! No amount of beautifully-synned tags will help if you don’t apply any of those tags to your fic.

Also. If your work is modern setting or no powers and that isn’t indicated in the tags or summary, you’re gonna get a lot of people who opened it, realized it wasn’t what they were looking for, and closed it again in irritation. 

Whereas if it’s properly tagged those same people will happily read it when they’re in the mood.

[meteor-sword]

i might elaborate later but fanfic replies literally develop writer’s metacognition and make them better writers

[meteor-sword]

so, Metacognition is the practice of thinking about thinking or identifying one’s cognitive process . in essence, metacognition is understanding how you prepare for academic challenges, exams, or tasks, and then being able to reflect on whether you did well, you prepared adequately, and what was most effective. in a writing setting, this type of self-awareness helps you transfer skills in writing, say, fanfiction into writing academically, competitively and professionally. 

here’s an article from brown university on the subject i’ll discuss further. there are 3 parts of practicing metacognition identified in this article: planning, monitoring, and evaluation. how might this look like for a fanfic writer? 

planning: asking oneself ‘what is my goal?’ ‘what strategies should i use to meet that goal?’ ‘how much time/length do i need to meet my goal?’. so maybe my goal is to write a meet cute where two characters kiss. i’ll need to use a perspective, an upbeat tone, and forward characterization to do this. it’ll probably take 5000 words and two days to write. 

monitoring: asking oneself: is my story making sense? am i reaching my goal, or do i need to summarize more succinctly to keep it to 5k? maybe you started with a lot of exposition and now you’re 6k in and the characters haven’t met yet. what went wrong/changed? is it ok that it changed or did you not realize it got away from you? what now? 

evaluation: asking oneself: did i reach my goal? was it effective? what would i change next time? 

this is where comments come in

it is incredibly difficult to evaluate yourself. comments like “i love this!” actually do begin to touch on the evaluation step of metacognition. it means, in general, the writer is on the right track. comments like “i loved the dialogue between x and y” or “the emotions of this section really hit me” begin to answer the questions of was it effective, did i reach my goal and conversely answer what would i change next time (by adding more of whatever was specified as working well). HYPER SPECIFIC comments, like analyzing the story between the lines or pasting in a line that you really liked and explaining why, is like jet fuel for the metacognition process and i’m not exaggerating. specifically pointing out what was effective and why is incredibly useful 

i can straight up credit my writing style to all of my friends and readers who have given incredibly detailed comments. when i found a community who gave feedback like that, my writing improved a thousand times faster than before. so! i guess what i’m saying is give feedback! it goes so much further than you realize!

[unnecessaryligatures]

Wired: Leave comments because it makes your fav writers feel good

Inspired: Leave comments because it will make them write better

[disregardcanon]

Eureka-d: leave comments because it will make YOU write better too. It develops your meta cognition as well

[jenroses]

The fact that people keep telling me, “Oh god I needed something this positive right now” keeps me writing the happy because I need it too. But the Untamed fandom has some AMAZING readers who go through chapter by chapter and pull out all the bits they like and talk about them and it’s honestly very motivating, mostly because it gets me out of my own imposter syndrome. 

[mikkeneko]

Plot twist, positive comments were Constructive Criticism the whole goddamn time

[laylainalaska]

Let’s hear it for lurkers

So apparently round umpty-zillion of “people are killing fandom by not commenting” is going around, and I’ve seen a few posts trashing people for lurking/viewing/reading instead of actively participating.

My journal and my fic has always been a lurker-friendly zone. I think lurkers are great and people can fight me on this. Here’s why:

We all started out as lurkers. Or at least most of us did. Come on. I’m sure some people out there must’ve jumped into fandom with both feet and started writing and commenting right away, and good for you if you did! But I sure didn’t. I lurked for YEARS. And even now, though I’ve been in fandom since before Y2K, whenever I get into a new fandom or a new social media platform, I still lurk. I hang out around the fringes for awhile to get a feeling for the place before starting to participate. Back in the mailing list/bulletin board days, it was usually recommended that people do that on purpose, watch and listen and learn the local lingo and social rules before diving in. So you know what? You are not doing anything wrong and you are not doing anything that most of the people you see out there commenting and creating and reccing things haven’t done themselves.

We all have lurker days, weeks, months …. Nobody is 100% “on” all the time. Participating in fandom (commenting, reccing, creating content, and so forth) is WORK. It may be fun work, but it still takes effort! Even if you’re sometimes very active in fandom, then you’ll have life fall on your head or the brain weasels flare up, and you won’t have the time and energy to give. Don’t feel guilty about not being able to give fandom your extra spoons. No one in fandom has a right to demand a single spoon from you that you don’t want to give.

Some of today’s lurkers may be your friends tomorrow. How do I know this? Because I’ve made friends with some of them myself! I’ve had people delurk in my comments to say hi after YEARS of reading my fanfic without saying a word. Which I am totally okay with, by the way. And some of these people are good friends today.

So, in conclusion:

It is okay to feel too shy to come out of lurkerhood in fandom until you feel more comfortable there. It is fine, in fact, if you never do.

It is okay to be too busy and have too few spoons to comment or create stuff. You still have a perfect right to be in fandom and read and reblog whatever you want.

It is okay if you meant to comment on that fic or go back and press the kudos button but never got around to it.

It is okay if you have too many accounts already and don’t want to create a new one just to comment/participate on a social media platform. 

It is okay if your personal situation (a stalker ex, controlling parents) makes it unsafe for you to create an account or comment on things.

It is okay if you can’t or don’t want to comment or do any of the other things that constitute non-lurkerhood, and you don’t owe anyone an explanation for why.

IT IS OKAY TO BE A LURKER.

[icouldwritebooks]

This post is a good way to balance a lot of the “COMMENT ON FIC COMMENT COMMENT COMMENT” stuff that I post here. Content creators will always be happy to receive comments, and comments do in fact breed more content but… sometimes you can’t, and you aren’t obligated to. It’s fine to passively enjoy content for whatever reason.

[chancecraz]

I was a decades long lurker. You all are welcome here.

[starlightandscrolls]

I’m still trying to find my place in the fandom, please lurk, and enjoy and join in as you feel comfortable. 

[ffs-abalisk]

Also if you are low energy, please don’t make promises you can’t or are unable to keep. I’d rather people just lurk and say nothing at all then promise to review and then don’t do anything for months.

It creates a false pretense and obligation that just puts more pressure on you when that’s not something you need right now, but also can make an author feel jilted when that promise is not followed through.

So be kind to yourself and be kind to your favorite authors. Comment when you can, but don’t invent obligations when you don’t have to, it’s not healthy.

Lurkers can lurk.

[docrimesbegay]

Realizing it’s not romance that I hate but overdone straight relationships with zero chemistry built on a slew of misogynistic tropes was like a huge revelation for me

[ffs-abalisk]

If you’re characters have literal zero commonality, what the fuck are you even doing here?

Like yeah I know I sometimes jump feet first into smut fics, but if I didn’t think those characters had any chemistry to begin with I would not even give it the time of day. (Being Demisexual makes this a requirement so.. makes sense)

Give me common interests and equal footing (with a little goofiness to the side, as a treat) and you are guaranteed to have my attention.

[hpdabbles]

Ronald “Pretty one” Weasley

I couldn’t stop thinking about a conversation I had on discord and so here. Ron Weasley becoming the Pretty Weasley

“Alright, you know what? I will not allow this.” Harry said one night after walking in on Ron trying on the robes his mother sent. The Yule Ball was but two weeks away, with neither of them being able to find dates yet, Ron had hope to try on the robes and see what they look like.

He felt utterly miserable staring at his reflection and Harry wouldn’t stand for it. His friend walked over with a set jaw, a firm frown and a stride that promise he would burn the world down if needed to get what he wanted. Ron often wondered how Harry could be so intense all the time, wasn’t he ever exhausted? “Off with the robes Ron.”

“I-I’m sorry?”

“Off with the robes. You aren’t wearing those. Burn them if you must.”  Harry repeated planting himself before his friend, hands on his hips. Briefly Ron thought of his mother when she was on a rant about the twins. “I’m going to get you something better to wear.”

A rush of shame and outrage sprung through the red head’s body, his face clouding over. He can’t figure out what to do with all the emotions, so he lashes out. “I don’t need your pity!”

“It’s not pity! You’re my best friend! I want to help”  Harry insists and it was only due to the fact he has seen the same expression on the Boy-Who-Lived’s face when he attempted to convince Ron he hadn’t put his name in the goblet.  

The red head pursed his lips but he nodded anyway. He could always find a way to pay his friend back, because he would be paying him back. Ron refused to be anyone charity case. “Fine. How exactly are you going to get me new dress robes?”

Harry practically lit up as if he thought of a brilliant idea. “Okay so I’ve been thinking a lot about this. We can’t leave the castle but you know who can? Dobby!”

At once the little house elf appeared in the room.  “Harry Potter has called for Dobby?”

“Yes, Dobby, you are a free elf yeah? Would you be able to leave Hogwarts and buy something I need?”

“Dobby has no master! Dobby can go buy for Harry Potter” The little elf chirps and Ron is honestly surprised by Harry’s idea because he hadn’t even consider the house elf to be able to leave the castle at all. “What is Harry Potter needing?”

Harry’s green eyes twist to lock with Ron’s ocean blue, and they crinkle as his friend gestures at him. “Dress robes for Ron. Something. Something really nice.”

Dobby freezes then frowns.  He gives Ron a calculating look which is something the pureblood never thought he would see on a house elf. He feels himself hunching over, a reaction of anyone staring at him for too long. 

Dobby snaps his fingers and a measuring tape appearing at his side.  “Dobby works in kitchens now, but Dobby would buy Malfoys robes when Dobby was not free. Dobby can find Wheezy robes. Dobby will make sure to find ones that work with Wheezy’s skin tone and eyes. Arms out Wheezy!”

“Um” Ron says throwing his arms out in a straight line at either of his sides. Harry grins taking a seat on the bed as the measuring tape zip and zaps around him. “Thank you Dobby. What do you mean with my skin tone and eyes.”

Dobby wrinkles his nose. “Dobby learned all about that while working for Malfoys Dobby did. Wheezy never dresses for the right colors, but Dobby knows which is best. Dark or falls yes, not bright.”

Ron had no idea what that meant but after a few minutes, the house elf proclaim he was finished and would be off to commission a outfit for the Weasley. Harry gave him a few galleons to pay for it, then he carefully folded up the old robes Mrs. Weasley sent Ron, to throw into a box under the red head’s bed, never to see the light of day again. 

“Now, what to do about your hair….” Harry starts but Ron raises his hands to his head, backing away from the other male who has picked up a pair of scissors. 

“Oh no! You are not coming anywhere near me with those mate!” 

“But-”

“No Harry”

“Fine” The boy huffs. He placed the scissors back on the night table near him and throws himself onto the bed. “I suppose we can find someone else to do it.”

That was easier send then done. Alas over the two weeks where they were waiting for Ron’s pending dress robe order, the two could not find someone who could do a decent cut and someone Ron trusted enough near his hair. They were so distracted with helping Ron for the big day they forgot about finding dates until Hermione reminded them the day off that Harry had to be on time with his date before hand to do the first walz.  

“oh no, I forgot about the date” His best friend whispered in horror as the two boys got ready. Ron himself was also in peril. The dance was to start in two hours and there was no sign of Dobby, his hair was still long and he didn’t have a date. Harry at least was wearing the robes his mother bought with his money and while he didn’t look like huge celerity of his status at least he had the proper attire.

“We are both so-wait. We both don’t have have…a date” Ron starts stating at Harry. The Potter stares back with a blank expression, bless his soul but the boy could be so dense.  “Mate we could go together.”

“Together? Wouldn’t that be…odd? Professor McGonagall said I needed a date, so people would think you and I are on a date.” Harry says slowly. He’s body language gives away to his discomfort but Ron knows Harry isn’t oppose to going with a bloke, he is just worried about how others will react. He gets like that whenever something from his upbringing comes to mind. The Weasley rolls his eyes.  

“Those muggles really do have everything backwards don’t they? Mate no one will care if you and I are male. Half the school is bent.”

“What really? Is this like the twins thing?”

“Twins are not that rare Harry. Almost every family has at least one set of twins in every three generations.”

“They are rare. In the muggle world at least.”

“Good thing we aren’t there then.” Ron then remembers he hasn’t gotten robes and wilts, throwing himself on the bed. “Though if Dobby doesn’t come back soon I understand not wanting to be seen with me in those dreadful dress robes Mum sent.”

“I’m not embarrassed by you Ron. Never. Your my best friend.” Harry says earnestly and the red head can’t help but crack a smile at that. He knows he has insecurities that can’t be resolved with simple words but sometimes Harry makes them a little bearable. “If you want to, please be my date. I rather it be with someone I know anyway.”

“I…” What does one say to that.  “I guess it be cool”

Ron cringed as the words left his mouth but Harry relaxed. The Potter looked at the time on the clock and shrugged. “May as well shower Ron. Whatever your wearing won’t matter if you smell like sweat.”

“Hey! I do not smell!” The red head shouts offended but the teasing eases something in him and he finds himself gathering what he needs for shower. Harry’s laughter followed him into the bathroom, until later when Ron was stepping under the water, Harry knocked on the door.

“I’m going to meet you there!” 

He shouted back a agreement, unable to hear of Harry walked away or not as he shampooed his hair. Half-way into scrubbing his body, a soft pop was heard and Ron screams as Dobby rips away the shower curtains. 

“Dobby brought Wheezy- stop screaming it only Dobby- Dobby brought Wheezy’s robes and Dobby will be helping Wheezy hair.”  The little house elf proclaims as the teen desperately tries to cover himself. “Out! Out! Much to do, Wheezy mustn’t be late!”

“Let me at least put some pants on!”

The House elf plants the boy into a chair, and snaps his fingers into three rapid sessions, a comb, sessions and a spray bottle flout around the Weasley who eyes the items with true free.  “Dobby do you know what you are doing?”

“Dobby has personally cared for Lucius Malfoy’s hair since he was seven! Dobby knows what to do!” 

Thinking of the man’s long fabulous hair “Alright…”

Later Ron is rushing to get to the meeting point. He barely had time to check his reflection since Dobby insisted on another shower after the haircut, and that he help him into the dress robes. He was also spread with some kind of cologne but when it came to see how he look he was honestly stun.

The fall color- which turn out to mean colors ranging from red to browns in different shades. Ron’s were dark red with dark brown- dress robes Dobby picked out for him fit him to the perfect cut meant to highlight all of his best features. They hugged his upper chest and arms but it wasn’t like the hand-me-downs that he got from his siblings who were all broader and shorter then he.

For as long as he could remember Ron had always felt like he was a weed kind of built, tall but scrawny. He never imagine getting clothes that were meant to fit him made him look so different. He seems lean.

His hair was cut shorter now too, not in layers that he had worn since young but more posh and even. Ron never thought he would look good like that but the cut made him look nice, make his eyes pop and his freckles stand out. 

He liked it. 

He really did. 

For the first time, he felt good. 

Harry was waiting for him at the bottom of the stairs the other champions and their dates already there and Ron was surprise to see Hermione hanging off of Victor Krum’s arm. Merlin but she looked like a goddess. 

Ron felt himself flattered for only a second because Harry looked up and his already large eyes widen.  “Ron! You look amazing!”

The others were also looking stun and with more confidence he made his way to his best friend. Hermione claps her hands  “Ron, you look great. Confidence makes you very fetching!”

He felt his face heating up. Harry presses his shoulder to his, short the boy may be but it makes it easier to speak “Thanks ‘Mione. You look beautiful.”

Around them more and more people start to hand out compliments and Ron thinks, this, this might be his thing. He could be the pretty Weasley. He could learn how to dress well and maybe he could ask Dobby to teach him. Maybe Ron could even learn how to make his own clothes, or make modifications to the hand me downs so they fit as they should. So he could look lean all the time. 

He knows it could be shallow but…

but he deserves to feel good, to look in the mirror and like what he sees. At least that’s what Harry says as they stumble through the first waltz grinning at each other for being goofs and Hermione encourages his idea later while the three get some punch. 

She claims it doesn’t matter what others think because it’s self-care and self-love, something she is always up for. Ron gives her a goofy smile, and then Harry invites him to another dance, while they are dancing- this song a upbeat one and not a formal waltz thank goodness- his best friends stares a little at him before blurting.  “Ron, I think I like girls and boys.”

The red head raises a brow,  “yeah? Is it Cedric?”

Harry shakes his head.  “No. I won’t tell him yet I just…wanted you to know. Have I told you how nice you look?”

“At least a dozen times mate, but thanks.” He laughs as the two spin around avoiding a different pair.  “Tell that bloke soon yeah? You deserve someone nice.”

Harry blushes “I’ll tell him. Thanks Ron.”

[ffs-abalisk]

This is absolutely superb! I need more confidence boosting Golden Trio cuz honestly these nerds never got enough of it, well done!

[valtsv]

[ffs-abalisk]

>Target sighted<

So what does a gay cowboy pirate vampire say?

“Blee-harrgh”???

[ffs-abalisk]

His name is Captain Danger Fangs and he’s fabulous.

His ship’s name is the Stoker Poker and no I don’t take criticism

[spaceyjules-deactivated20180305]

If you call pedophilia a kink please unfollow me and never talk to me again

[spaceyjules-deactivated20180305]

Isn’t it disgusting that 23 people just unfollowed me

[clarknokent]

Unfollow me too

[gothhabiba]

this goes double if you call paedophilia a disability. unfollow me twice

[closet-keys]

and if you call pedophilia an “orientation” or in any way compare it to being LGBP+ you can unfollow, delete your blog, and set yourself on fire. 

[peachypastel]

I just lost 50 followers.. bye

[katiemcgrxth]

clearing out the trash

[bway-grimes]

GO ON AND S M A S H THAT UNFOLLOW BUTTON

[moonedknights]

BUHBYE U McNASTIES

[bogleech]

I’ve seen this circulating forever and genuinely thought “no way do I have any of them following me” until this week when it turned out I had all these fuckin “MAP” (pedophile) followers sad to find out I’m an “anti” (normal person) Please leave and also please get guinea worm.

[natm-ask-account]

I’m reblogging to both of my blogs bc I don’t need ppl like that here

[longscarydream]

lifehack: when you see a Take One candy bowl in a restaurant, wait until noones looking and shovel candy into your pockets. god may judge you but his sins outnumber your own

[zerofarad]

“God may judge you but his sins outnumber your own.” We really need to start collecting and sourcing these Potent Quotables.

[citrusgroves]

I’ve been doing this for years

It’s all on a google doc of mine (x)

[swoopingsilver]

“Kill me. Kill me and live with the memory. Then tell the stars that you won.” -fucking Warrior Cats

[eternal-fractal]

We live in a socie-

[lorkhansdick]

Wait wait you forgot the mushroom post “you can’t kill me in a way that matters” +the following uhhhh 1 sec

[lorkhansdick]

I find the mushroom post :)

[lorkhansdick]

sorry

sorry

[lorkhansdick]

Can we go ahead and add “one day you’ll decompose, and I’ll be there to watch it happen” to the list please

[smolpocketmonstercoffee]

@imfunnydamit

[jottingprosaist]

[thesealfriend]

“There is not enough time to make all the things one’s imagination can conjure” - @reyndesign

[scandalouswitch]

Every single one of these quotes is going in my next grimoire

[cryptidbreathmints]

May I add: “I refuse to die until things are better and that is a threat.”-random tumblr user I can’t find the post anymore

[buterfligurl]

@gallusrostromegalus

[gallusrostromegalus]

Oh! an entire quote list for the Raw Animals Coloring Book!

[ao3tagoftheday]

[Image Description: Tag reading “Canon is a native song bird and I’m a house cat about to take it apart and use all the juicy bits”]

The AO3 Tag of the Day is: As long as you don’t leave the carcass on my doorstep

[papertombstones]

adoring the restructuring of metaphors for ecological accuracy

[ao3tagoftheday]

I am, above all else, a pedant

[feitanswife]

Canon is a patch of English Ivy and I am a 14 year old girl who just learned what the term “invasive species” is

(And my readers are my chaotic good environmental science teacher who enables me)

[ao3tagoftheday]

Canon is a golf course and I am a vigilante with a bulldozer and a truck full of native plants

[knightwayne]

requested by anonymous

[absurdtamsin]

you know what gets me about this scene? It’s what it says about Azula.

Even when she’s going nuts, when her mind is slowly unraveling, Azula’s delusion about her mother does not present her with the image you would expect from a child who thinks their mother thought they were a monster. If Azula truly believed that her mother thought she was a monster, then her hallucination of her should reflect that imagined belief, and present her with a mother who calls her a monster.

But she doesn’t see this. Her crumbling sanity doesn’t concoct a hateful mother, but a loving and patient one. This presents us with a truly sad possibility : that Azula never really believed that her mother thought her a monster, but that Azula convinced herself of this to justify or make sense of her mother’s seeming preference for Zuko instead of her. 

And in this moment of terrible fear and vulnerability, when Azula has no one left to bully and banish to justify her fears and behavior, Azula sees the mother she at once resents and longs for. Azula’s illusions are gone, and all she has left is that sad truth she cannot admit to without crippling cognitive dissonance : her mother loved her. Fear is not the only reliable way to ensure loyalty. Her mother did not fear her. And that she was so very wrong about that is what drives her over the edge.

For all her villainy, Azula’s story is tragic one, one of a child at the mercy of a father who did not love her but who she depended on for everything and who demanded unspeakable things from her, a child, to keep his non-existent love. It’s hard sometimes to remember that Azula was only 14 years old in the series, but she was already staging coups and leading people into combat. That is no place for a child, but she was thrust into it anyway.

And it broke her, since she had no true help or support like Zuko did from Uncle Iroh. After her mother left, there was no-one there to balance her worldview, so skewed by her father, into something more moderate, less cutthroat, or kinder. There was only her father, and he was the Firelord : he was the ultimate authority, and no-one could challenge him in any way that mattered, not even Zuko.

Azula was never getting out of this sane or safely, because she was effectively psychologically trapped on a path she could not avoid, and that is nothing more than tragic.

[ffs-abalisk]

Key Writing Advice That Will Save Your Life:

Yanno the 'why' phase of toddlerhood?

Do that.

[noisemx]

Chris Schweizer - “Important Life Lessons That I Learned from Raul Julia’s Portrayal of Gomez Addams”

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

more parents need to understand that teaching children to ask why rules exist is positive and valuable. teaching kids about authority–and that authority is not always right, and when and how to question it–is a fundamental step to preparing them for adult life. 

do it right and you won’t get disobedient kids, you’ll get kids who think critically 

[why-bless-your-heart]

I’ve mentioned this before, but my parents introduced a system where if they tell you to do something and there’s a reason you can’t do it, you can ask “May I appeal,” and they’ll listen to whatever new information you have to present and either revise their command or tell you to do it anyway. This serves a few purposes: first, it’s really funny to hear a four-year-old use legal jargon. Second, having a system in place for protest that isn’t whining, complaining, or outright disobedience makes things easier for the parents. Third, it fosters an environment of mutual respect. The child knows that his reasoning is taken into consideration when the parents’ decision is made, and the parent knows that the child may have legitimate reasons for not obeying a command, while still reserving the right to the final decision.

[thatlogos-deactivated20210124]

I do remember telling a teacher that her request was “out of her jurisdiction” in kindergarten so it can backfire just FYI

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

1. this first comment opened a whole new world for me, I adore this approach

2. to the second commenter:  I see ZERO DOWNSIDE to this

[steakandcheeeese]

Lmao you’re an adult, you shouldn’t be using the word squick. Use trigger. Use your grown up adult words to explain how you feel instead of leaning on a cutesy uwu term that no one outside of tumblr uses. It’s embarrassing.

Idek if this is serious or ironic honestly

[steakandcheeeese]

#like...why use this baby word when you can just say how you feel about it

Found this in the original post tags and I just... SIGH

Here’s the thing, anon. Squick isn’t just ‘I don’t like this’, it’s ‘I think this is gross and it makes me deeply uncomfortable but I pass no judgement on those who enjoy it, because I acknowledge that everyone is different and those same people may have the same visceral reaction some of the things I enjoy’ and was originally made popular in the kink community.

So yeah, if you want to say that every time you come across a trope or whatever you find icky then go ahead, say that every time.

Also, this term dates back to Usenet in the early nineties, so sure, go off.

[sugarfey]

This frustrates me so much because squicks and triggers are fundamentally different things and as someone with PTSD, the distinction is super useful!

Squicks are things I find personally gross but may not be gross to someone else. They don’t upset me or provoke my PTSD, they simply do not pop my corn. Example: Omegaverse. I don’t like it, it makes me uncomfortable and I’m not going to read it, but if you like it, you do you.

Triggers are things which directly provoke my PTSD. This means that my triggers may seem completely normal and innocuous to someone else, because my triggers are so personal and intrinsically linked to a specific event in my life. My reactions to these triggers can include panic attacks and flashbacks to this traumatic event. Sometimes being triggered can affect me for several hours or even days.

Describing something as either a squick or a trigger allows me easily establish the difference in my potential reaction to something without having to go into painful detail about why bodily fluids might make me back button quickly but poker games might leave me a crying wreck. 

[oopsabird]

Making this distinction, and having a specific word for something that is not your slice of pie, but also not an actual psychological trigger, is also REALLY important for making sure that the word “trigger” can retain its original, specific, purposeful, and collectively understood clinical meaning (both inside and outside online fannish communities).

If we encourage everyone to lump things that just make them slightly uncomfortable or simply aren’t to their taste in under the word “trigger”, it actually dilutes the meaning of the word. It makes it harder for us all to, for the most part, collectively agree on and understand what exactly is being described when the word gets used.

And that destruction of shared precise definitions is a problem! It is really useful to have the communal language to be able to clearly and quickly delineate between “this grosses me out, no thanks” and “this is going to set off a trauma episode, rattle my brain, and probably throw off the rest of my day/week as a result” while also maintaining your privacy, and to know that you will be understood in what you are saying. Not having it is actually detrimental to the effort of making our communities safe and navigable for people living with trauma. Which is a goal that is much more important to me, personally, than the idea of not being “cutesy” (a word which in this case which sounds a lot like it’s being used as a euphemism for “cringe”).

(Also, one has to wonder if people told Shakespeare he was being childish when he made up entirely new words that are still widely used in the English language today...... 🤔)

[lynmars79]

There’s a lot in fandom and traditional publishing I describe as squicks; things that I don’t care for or find gross. But I’m also not going to have a visceral physical/emotional reaction if I stumble on those topics by accident, and may even on occasion purposefully consume media containing those topics, because I know what I’m getting into—and again, it’s just “I don’t prefer this” or “I don’t like this” and can find well-done exceptions now and then, out of creative curiosity (and find they still aren’t my cuppa, but hey).

I am lucky in that I really don’t have much, if anything, that does prompt a physical/emotional reaction like an actual trigger would. So it’s not appropriate for me to use that term when discussing things to avoid for myself. However, if I know something is someone else’s squick or trigger, I can better warn them for it.

Anon is the one who needs to grow up if they assign age use to a collection of consonant and vowel sounds with a specific meaning that is very separate from the other word, that fandom has been using for 25-30ish years so far as I recall.

[noonmutter]

Yet another instance of an anon showing their ass in an attempt to school a fandom old on their language use.

“no one outside tumblr uses” man shut the fuck up you even called it a “uwu” word and guess what we were using “squick” back in the late 90s on the furry IRC servers I was in